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Tag Archives: failure
Trying to Help Myself
I tend to build up negative scenarios in my head that never materialise in real life. Often they have to do with failure and rejection. Often these scenes appear in my nightmares when I try « not to think » … Continue reading
Posted in Midlife Musings
Tagged failure, fear, feelings, insecurity, nightmares, Sri Lanka, thoughts, writing
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Paralysed by Fear
In my head I know all the right steps to take, but I am paralysed by fear. Fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of not being good enough. I know I shouldn’t care because what could be the worse … Continue reading
Posted in Midlife Musings
Tagged 7 million, doubt, ego, failure, fear, paralysed, self esteem, success, thoughts
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Not Into Parties or Clubbing
I am terribly awkward and self conscious. Never been into parties or clubbing where I didn’t already know and was comfortable with everyone there. I prefer one on one meetings over tea with someone I know and like, rather than … Continue reading
Posted in Midlife Musings
Tagged alone, awkward, clubbing, failure, lack of confidence, low self-esteem, noise, odd, parties, self conscious, solitude, thoughts
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I Wish Singapore Companies would embrace the Management Philosophy of Trust
[youtube]f60dheI4ARg[/youtube] Based on my experiences at work, the best and most productive times I had were at forward thinking companies that were non hierarchical. The lean, flat and collaborative structure really works. But most of all, and I think I … Continue reading
Posted in When Work Sucks
Tagged companies, creativity, failure, hierarchy, management philosophy, respect, Singapore, Steve Jobs, team work, telecommuting, trust, work
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Ris Low Never Gives Ups
They say if you want success you keep trying even when you’ve failed before. After being dethroned Singapore’s infamous Ris Low is trying for the Miss World Crown again and this time she sounds more confident. Read about it at … Continue reading
Posted in Singapore Headlines
Tagged Celebrities, Contest, culture, dethroned, failure, famous, funny, infamous, Life, local, Miss World, Ris Low, Singapore, Singlish, success, Video, women, YouTube
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Jon Hamm and His Girlfriend at the 2010 Emmys
I love a guy who is loyal. Jon Hamm shows he is as he appears on the red carpet with Jennifer Westfeldt who have been together since he was not famous and couldn’t get acting jobs. He used to be … Continue reading
Posted in My Celebrity Addiction
Tagged Entertainment, failure, funny, Girlfriend, Jon Hamm, luck, Mad Men, partner, success, unemployed, women, work, YouTube
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Steve Jobs is Gonna Chew Some People Up After the iPhone 4 Demo Fail
This is a problem most iPhone users encounter from time to time. Not being able to get onto the wi-fi network because it’s overloaded with too many users. At the latest iPhone launch today, as a result of all the … Continue reading
Posted in My Celebrity Addiction
Tagged Apple, fail, failure, iPhone 4, news, Steve Jobs, technology, Video, wi-fi
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Attempting Fiction (The Interview)
Mila wiped her clammy hands on her new charcoal skirt and adjusted her white blouse. Willing herself not to loose her balance she walked into the room. It had been months since she had worn proper shoes. The new shoes … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging & Writing
Tagged anxiety, failure, interview, jobless, story, unemployed
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